reditaliana
02-10-2006, 06:57 PM
[Drags out soap box, climbs up, clears throat.....]
I would just like to take a moment to address the person who thought highly enough of me to "warn" RR of my "online dating presence." And this goes for anyone else who, in the future, might have similar thoughts of bringing my "faults" to his attention, without first clarifying the facts of the case with me.
To you of little faith, while enjoying your anonymity thanks to Paul's excellent character and good graces, I have some words. Had you the same strength of character, I would have this conversation with you in private, but then again, if you had, this post would be unnecessary.
First, no matter the situation, ever, it is always in good taste and basic decency to confront someone with whom you take issue, for whatever reason, first, prior to opening your mouth to speak ill of them to anyone else, lest you turn out to be wrong in your snap judgement and then appear ignorant, conniving and petty.
Second, have a little faith in people. I find it difficult to understand why anyone would assume the worst about me, or anyone else for that matter. Granted, I have made mistakes in the past, in matters unrelated to the topic of this conversation, but never have I ever intentionally caused harm to someone else or acted out of malice. Especially not when it comes to my fiance.
Ordinarily I would blow something like this off, but in this particular instance, I felt it necessary to clear my name, and the reputation of my man, whom I love dearly and am going to marry. I wouldn't want you thinking of him as soft for staying with me anyway...
Yes, I did join a dating service in December, but it was not with the intention of finding an alternate, or a backup fling.
My intention was to find another woman - a blonde with generous endowments and an ass you could bounce a quarter off of - in order to surprise Paul for Christmas, or his birthday. I was thinking of wrapping her too, in nothing but a silk ribbon and, well.... you get the idea. Pardon me for not being blonde, or big breasted myself - but I didn't see why he should be deprived of the opportunity nonetheless. Clearly, such a woman proved elusive, because I was never contacted by, nor made contact with, that person. (Or any other person, for that matter.)
Had you (Mysterious Interferer) taken the time to contact me first, this would have been made clear, we could have laughed about it and you would have saved him the days of worrying about my fidelity. Had you delved a little deeper, you would have seen that I clearly indicated that I was NOT single, nor looking for a man , nor did I visit the site after the initial sign-up. Had you even tried to contact me under the guise of being someone else, you would have learned the truth.
Please excuse me for being a little harsh, and for divulging information I'm sure none of you want to hear anyway, but I just didn't feel right walking around wondering what I've done to give you such a bad impression of me that you would instantly assume the worst.
Had you contacted me in private, this would have been a private affair. But since you didn't, and Paul won't tell me who you are, I have no recourse but to speak as plainly as possible and clarify the facts of the case in the open.
I love Paul. I am going to marry him. And be faithful to him and take care of him and love him with all my heart, come what may. And nothing is going to change that, not even dirty, unsubstantiated rumors.
I'm sorry if this post is completely irrelevant and out of the ordinary for me, but I'm hurt. And I don't think I deserved that.
Please send complaints to:
123 Butt Lane
Hurt, CA 95000
Nuff said. Again, I'm sorry for hanging out dirty laundry, but I had to set the record straight.
So, in the future, if you have a problem with ME, contact ME and tell ME before you take it upon yourself to inflict hurt in error.
Thank you.
Now, does anyone know a really hot blonde with big boobs.... I'm still looking :D
[Gets off soap box and skips off stage...]
I would just like to take a moment to address the person who thought highly enough of me to "warn" RR of my "online dating presence." And this goes for anyone else who, in the future, might have similar thoughts of bringing my "faults" to his attention, without first clarifying the facts of the case with me.
To you of little faith, while enjoying your anonymity thanks to Paul's excellent character and good graces, I have some words. Had you the same strength of character, I would have this conversation with you in private, but then again, if you had, this post would be unnecessary.
First, no matter the situation, ever, it is always in good taste and basic decency to confront someone with whom you take issue, for whatever reason, first, prior to opening your mouth to speak ill of them to anyone else, lest you turn out to be wrong in your snap judgement and then appear ignorant, conniving and petty.
Second, have a little faith in people. I find it difficult to understand why anyone would assume the worst about me, or anyone else for that matter. Granted, I have made mistakes in the past, in matters unrelated to the topic of this conversation, but never have I ever intentionally caused harm to someone else or acted out of malice. Especially not when it comes to my fiance.
Ordinarily I would blow something like this off, but in this particular instance, I felt it necessary to clear my name, and the reputation of my man, whom I love dearly and am going to marry. I wouldn't want you thinking of him as soft for staying with me anyway...
Yes, I did join a dating service in December, but it was not with the intention of finding an alternate, or a backup fling.
My intention was to find another woman - a blonde with generous endowments and an ass you could bounce a quarter off of - in order to surprise Paul for Christmas, or his birthday. I was thinking of wrapping her too, in nothing but a silk ribbon and, well.... you get the idea. Pardon me for not being blonde, or big breasted myself - but I didn't see why he should be deprived of the opportunity nonetheless. Clearly, such a woman proved elusive, because I was never contacted by, nor made contact with, that person. (Or any other person, for that matter.)
Had you (Mysterious Interferer) taken the time to contact me first, this would have been made clear, we could have laughed about it and you would have saved him the days of worrying about my fidelity. Had you delved a little deeper, you would have seen that I clearly indicated that I was NOT single, nor looking for a man , nor did I visit the site after the initial sign-up. Had you even tried to contact me under the guise of being someone else, you would have learned the truth.
Please excuse me for being a little harsh, and for divulging information I'm sure none of you want to hear anyway, but I just didn't feel right walking around wondering what I've done to give you such a bad impression of me that you would instantly assume the worst.
Had you contacted me in private, this would have been a private affair. But since you didn't, and Paul won't tell me who you are, I have no recourse but to speak as plainly as possible and clarify the facts of the case in the open.
I love Paul. I am going to marry him. And be faithful to him and take care of him and love him with all my heart, come what may. And nothing is going to change that, not even dirty, unsubstantiated rumors.
I'm sorry if this post is completely irrelevant and out of the ordinary for me, but I'm hurt. And I don't think I deserved that.
Please send complaints to:
123 Butt Lane
Hurt, CA 95000
Nuff said. Again, I'm sorry for hanging out dirty laundry, but I had to set the record straight.
So, in the future, if you have a problem with ME, contact ME and tell ME before you take it upon yourself to inflict hurt in error.
Thank you.
Now, does anyone know a really hot blonde with big boobs.... I'm still looking :D
[Gets off soap box and skips off stage...]